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    £ £ 1.USAToday£¨Oct.12,1984£©,P.10A.

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    £ £ 8USAToday£¨Oct.12,1984£©,p.10A.

    £ £ 9USAToday£¨Oct.12,1984£©,p.10A.

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    £ £ 1EvelynDuvallandRuebenHill,WhenYOuMarry£¨NewYork:AssociationPress,1948£©,p.1.

    £ £ 2DuvallandHill,WhenYouMarry,p.26.

    £ £ 3ElorG.Nelson,YourLifeTogether£¨Rlchmond:JohnKnoxPress,1967£©p.18.

    £ £ 4BobPhinips,AHumorousLookAtLoveMarriage£¨Eugene,OR:HarvestHousePublishers,1981£©,pp.54-77.

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    £ £ 1MattClark,"TheSex-TherapyRevolution,"Newsweek£¨Nov.17,198O£©,p.98.

    £ £ 2"IamLoved"byWm.J.andGloriaGaither.Copyright1978byWm.J.Gaither.Allrightsreserved.Usedbypermis-sion.

    £ £ 3C.S.Lewis,TheScrewtapeLetters(MacmillanPublishingCo.,NewYork,NY,1961£©£»p.64.

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    £ £ 1ClaireSafran,"TroublesthatPullCouplesApart"Redbook£¨January,1979£©,p.83£»

    £ £ 2TerriSchultz,"DoesMarreageGiveToday-sWomenWhatTheyReallyWant?"LadiesHomeJournal£¨June,1980£©,pp.90,150.

    £ £ 3CarlaStephens,"50QuestionsBeforeYorSay,-IDo-"ChristianLife£¨September,1979£©,p.26.

    £ £ 4HerbertAGlieberman,"WhySoManyMarriagesFail,"U.S.A.News£¦WorldReport£¨Ju1y20,1981£©,p.54.

    £ £ 5USAToday£¨Octoberl2,1984£©,p.11A.

    £ £ 6MarilynElias,"Affairs:WomenLookForIntimacy,"USAToday£¨Nov.6,1984£©,p.1D.

    £ £ 7H.NormanWright,Communication:KeyToYourMarriage£¨VenturaCA:RegalBooks,1979£©,p.52

    £ £ 8DwightSmall,AfterYou-veSaidIDo£¨OldTappan,NJ:Flem-ingH.Revell,1968£©,p.51.

    £ £ 9CynthiaDeutsch,"TheDangersofASilentPartner,"Parents£¨Oct.,1979£©,p.24.

    £ £ 10HamletActi,SC.3,1.68.

    £ £ 11RechardB.Austin,Jr.,HowToMakeItWithAnoteherPerson£¨NewYork:MacMillanPublishingCo.,1976£©,p.93

    £ £ 12DavidAugsburger,FreedomofForgiveness£¨Chicago:MoodyPress,1973£©,p.87.

    £ £ 13DavidAuhsburger,CaringEnoughToHearandBeHeard£¨Ventura,CA£»RegalBooks,1982£©,p.104.

    £ £ 14H.NormanWright,MoreCommunicationKeysToYourMarriage£¨Ventura,CA:RegalBooks,1983£©,p.89.

    £ £ 15MichelleSandlass,"ThePowerofaHappyPositiveSelf-Im-age."Glamour£¨Jan.,1979£©,p.12O¡£

    £ £ 16Dr.DavidAugsburger,CaringEnoughToHearandBeHeard£¨Ventura,CA:ReaglBooks,1982£©,pp.148-150.

    £ £ 17JoyceLandorf,ToughandTender£¨OldTappan,NJ:F1emingH.RevellCo.,1975£©,p.76

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    £ £ 1H.NormanWright,MoreCommunicationkeysForYourMarriage£¨Ventura,CA:RegalBooks,1983£©,p.9O.

    £ £ 2DavidAugsburger,CaringEnoughTOHearandBeHeard£¨Ventura,CA:RegalBooks,1982£©,p.74.

    £ £ 3RlchardStrauss,MarriageIsFOrLove£¨Wheaton,IL:TyndaleHousePublishers,1979£©,p.87.

    £ £ 4GeorgeE.andNikkiKocher,MyFamily:HowshallILiveWithIt£¨Chicago,IL:RandMcNally£¦Co.,1968£©,p.27.

    £ £ 5JodyGaylin,"First-YearFights,"Glamour£¨Dec.,1979£©,p.26.

    £ £ 6J.AllenPetersen,BeforeYOuMarry£¨Wheaton,IL:TyndaleHousePublishers,Inc.,1974£©,p.43.

    £ £ 7DavidR.Mace,GettingReadyForMarriage£¨NewYork:AbingdonPress,1972£©.p71.

    £ £ 8Wright,MoreCommunication,pp.127-128.

    £ £ 9LeoBuscagliainUSAToday£¨Octoberl2,1984£©,p.11A.

    £ £ 10MargaretLane,"AreYouReallyListening?"Reader-sDisgest£¨Nov.,1980£©,p.183.

    £ £ 11RlchardL.Strauss,MarriageIsForLove,p.86.

    £ £ 12H.NormanWright,ThePillarsOfMarriage£¨Ventura,CA:RegalBooks,1979£©,p.86.

    £ £ 13H.NormanWright,CommunicatiOn:KeyToYourMarriage£¨Ventura,CA:RegalBooks,1974£©,p.150.

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    £ £ 1DavidAugsburger,CaringEnoughtoHearAndBeHeard£¨Ventura,CA:RegalBooks,1982£©,p.20

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    £ £ 1TimLaHaye,"HowToLiveHappioyEver,"ChristianLife£¨Sept.,1979£©,p.26.

    £ £ 2RichardStrauss,MarriageIsForLove£¨Wheaton,IL:TyndaleHousePublishing,1979£©,p.95-96.

    £ £ 3HalLinsay,TheLiberationofPlanetEarth£¨GrandRapids:ZondervanPublishingHouse,1974£©,pp.170,172.

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    £ £ 1RichardStrauss,MarriageIsForLove£¨Wheaton,IL:TyndaleHousePublishing,1979£©,p.17.

    £ £ 2GretchenKurz,"SexualLiberation;IsItWorththeHasle?"Mademoiselle£¨Augustl977£©,pp.207-8.

    £ £ 3LonnieBarbachandLindaLevine,"HowtoTurnGoodSexIntoGreatSex,"Mademoiselle£¨October,198O£©,p.207.

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    £ £ 1SallyWendkosOlds,"DoYouHaveWhatItTakesTOMakeAGoodMarriage?"Ladies¡¯HomeJournal£¨October,198O£©,p.202.

    £ £ 2DavidR.Mace,"WhatMakesAGoodMarriage?"FamilyGuideToGoodLiving£¨Woodbury:BobleyPublishingCorp.,1977£©,p.175.

    £ £ 3H.G.ZerofPitfallsOfRomanticLove£¨n.p.,n.d.£©,p.166.

    £ £ 4DavidBogard,"MamageMadeInHeaven,"Decision£¨June,1981£©,p.8.

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    £ £ 1HerbertJ.Miles,SesualUnderstandingBeforeMarriage£¨GrandRapids:ZondervanPliblishingHouse,1971£©,p.197.

    £ £ 2E1ofG.NelsonYourLifeTogether£¨Richmond:JohnKnoxPress,1976£©,p.20.

    £ £ 3DavidR.Mace,GettingReadyForMarriage£¨NewYork:AbingdonPress,1972£©,p.45.

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    £ £ 1SallyWendkosOlds,"DoYouHaveWhatItTakesTOMakeAGoodMarriage?"LadiesHomeJournal£¨Oct.,1980£©,pp.76-78,202-204.

    £ £ 2LornaandPhillpSarrei,eds.,"TheRedbookReportOnSexualRelationships:AMajOrNewSurveyofMoreThan26,OOOWOmenAndMen,"Redbook£¨Oct.,1980£©,pp.76-77

    £ £ 3NatalieGittelson,"HappilyMarriedWomen:HowTheyGotThatWay,HOwTheyStayThatWay,"McCalls£¨Feb.,1980£©.p.36.

    £ £ 4GeorgeA.HughstonandMichaelJ.Sporakowski,"Prescrip-tionsFormarriage:AdjustmentsandSatisfactionsofCouplesMarriedfor50orMoreYears,"theFami1yCoordina-tor£¨Oct.,1978£©,p.323.

    £ £ 5RobertB.Taylor,quotedin"BehindTheSurgeInBrokenMarriages,"U.S.News£¦WorldReport£¨Jan22,1979£©,p.52.

    £ £ 6DaVidMilofsky,"WhatMakesAgoodFamily,"Redbook£¨Aug.,1981£©,pp.60,62.

    £ £ 7EvelynMillisDuval1,BuildingYourmarriageTheFamilyGuideTOGoodLiving£¨Woodbury:BobleyPublishingCorp.,1877£©,p.68.

    £ £ 8JamesRobison,"SurveyHintsReligionMayAidSexualEnjOy-ment,"ChicagoTribune£¨n.d.,n.p.£©

    £ £ 9HerbertJ.MilesSexualUnderstandingBdforeMarriage,PP.76-78.£ÛForDr.Milesbasesforhisresearch,seehisbookSex-ualHappinessinMamage,AppendixI,p.131;AppendixII,pp.132-146.£Ý

    £ £ 10JoshMcDowell,HisImageMyImage£¨SanBernardino:Here-sLifePublishers,Inc.,1984£©,pp,126-129.

    £ £ 11J.AllenPetersen,BeforeYOuMarry£¨Wheaton,TyndaleHousePublishing,1974£©,p.28.

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    £ £ 1DonOsgood,ChristianHerald£¨Decemberl976£©

    £ £ 2DpdDigestIBMCorporation

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    £ £ 1TerriSchultz,"DoesMarriageGiveToday-sWOmenWhatTheyReallyWant?"Ladies¡¯HomeJournal£¨June,198O£©,p.91.

    £ £ 2UrbanG.SteinmetzandBernardR.Weise,EverythingYouNeedTOKnowtOStayMarriedAndLikeIt£¨GrandRapids:ZondervanPublishingHouse,1972£©,p.143.

    £ £ 3PersonalletterfromLarryBurkett,Dec.,1984.

    £ £ 4Ibid.

    £ £ 5Dr.JohnMacArthur,Ju.,from"masteringMaterialism"studynotes.

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    £ £ 1Eve1ynDuvallandReubenHill,BeforeYouMarry,£¨NewYork:AssociationPress,1959£©p.36.

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    £ £ 1H.NormanWrightThePillarsOfMarriage£¨Ventura,CA:Re-galBooks,1979£©,pp.41-42.

    £ £ 2EvelynDuvall,"MatureEnoughTOMarry,"TheMarriageAffair£¨wheaton:TyndaleHousePublishers,1971£©,p.17.

    £ £ 3BenA.Ard,Jr.,andConstanceC.Ard,HandbookOfMar-Counsering£¨PaloAlto:ScienceandBehaviorBooks,Inc.£©,p.289.

    £ £ 4JerryAdler,"TheScienceofLove,"Newsweek,£¨Feb.25,1980£©,p.89.

    £ £ 5KennethWoodward,"WhatthePopeIsReallySayingAboutSexAndmarriage,"McCalls£¨April,1981£©,p.192.

    £ £ 6HowardHendricks,"YardseticdsforLove"£¨lecturenotes£©,p.25.

    £ £ 7GeorgeF.Gilder,SexualSuicide£¨NewYork:Quadrangle,1973£©,p.72.

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    £ £ 1Eve1ynDuvallandReubenHill,WhenYouMarry£¨NewYork:AssociationPress,1948£©,p.35.

    £ £ 2Dr.RrichardStraussMarriageIsForLove£¨wheatOn,IL:Tyn-daleHousePublishers,1979£©,p.35.

    £ £ 3ElofG.NelsonYourLifeTogether£¨Richmond:JohnKnoxPress,1967£©,pp.68-69.

    £ £ 4C.S.LewisTheFOurLoves£¨NewYork:Fontana,1963£©,p.104F.

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    £ £ 1LarryChristenson,TheChristianFamily£¨Minneapolis:BethanyFellowship,Inc.,1970£©,pp.27-28.

    £ £ 2StanleyL.Englebardt,"WhatIsThisThingcalledLove?"Reader-sDigest£¨June,1980£©,p.109¡£

    £ £ 3JohnPowell,WhyAmIAfraidToLove?£¨Niles:ArgusCom.munications,1972£©,pp.25,27.

    £ £ 4AlbertLeeandCarolAIlmanLee,TheTotalcouple£¨Dayton:LorenzPress,1977£©,pp.75-76

    £ £ 5MadoraHolt,"ThesecretsBehindSuccessfulMarriages,"ChristianScienceMonitor£¨October5,1978£©,p.17.

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    £ £ 1GaryInrig,QualttyFriendship£¨Chicago:MoodyPress,1981£©,pp.156-157.

    £ £ 2Inrig,Friendship,p.156-157.

    £ £ 3KennethS.Wuest,TheNewTestament,AnExpandedTransla-tion£¨GrandRapids,Erdmans,1981£©,P.407.AdditionaIReferences:TheChristianHome,"WalkingInLove,"pp.16-18.

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    £ £ 1WalterTrobisch,ILovedAGirl£¨NewYork:Harper£¦Row,1963£©,p.25.

    £ £ 2HenryBrandt,WhenATeenFallsInLove£¨GrandRapids:Zondervan,n.d.£©,p.27.

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    £ £ 1EvelynDuvallandReubenHill,BeforeYoumarry£¨NewYork:AssociaticrnPress,1959£©,p.33.

    £ £ 2CharlesR.Swindoll,Comitment:TheKeyToMarriage(Port-land:MultnomahPress,1981),P.15.

    £ £ 3FrankO.C.x,HumanIntimacy:Marriage,TheFamilyanditsMeanting(St.Paul:WestPubilshingCo.,1984),P.118.

    £ £ 4LawrenceCrabb,Jr.,TheMarriageBuilder(GrandRapids:ZondervanPublishingHouse,1982),PP.33-34

    £ £ 5HermanWeissandJudyDvais,HowToGetMarried(NewYord:BallantineBooks,1983),P.12.

    £ £ 6NatalieGittelson,"HappilyMarriedWomen:HowTheyGotThatWay,HowTheyStayThayWay,"McCall-s(Feb.,1980),P.36.

    £ £ 7FradkO.Cox,AmericanWaysOfLove(LosAngeles:WestPublishingCo.,1978),P.79.

    £ £ 8H.NormanWright,PillarsOfMarriage(Ventura,CA:RegalBooks,1979),p.44.

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    £ £ 1H.NormanWrightandMarvinInmon,AGuidebookToDat-ing,Waiting,AndChoosingAMate(Irvine:HarvestHousePublishers,1978),p.17.

    £ £ 2HaroldJ.Sala,"20CommandmentsForABetterMarriage,"ChristianLife(Jan.1979),p.53

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    £ £ 1AlbertLeeandCarolAllmanLee,TheTotalCouple(Dayton:LorenzPress,1977),p.54.

    £ £ 2KathleenFury,"SexandtheAmericanTeenager,"LadiesHomeJournal(March,1980),p.159.

    £ £ 3WalterTrobisch,ILovedAGirl(NewYork:Harper£¦Row,1963),p.4.

    £ £ 4Dr.RichardL.Strauss,MarriageIsForLove(Wheaton,IL:TyndaleHousePublishers,1979),p.34-35

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    £ £ 1RobertB.Taylor,"BehindTheSurgeInBrokenMarriages,"U.S.News£¦WorldReport(Jan.22,1979),p.53.

    £ £ 2Ibid.

    £ £ 3CharlesR.Swindoll,Commitment:TheKeyToMarriage(Port-land:MultnomahPress,1981),p.18.

    £ £ 4.Swindoll,Commitment,p.18.

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    £ £ 1DavidGelman,"HowMarriagesCanLast,"Newsweek(July13,1981),p.73.

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